You both seem to be on a posting spree and I just can’t keep up. I don’t know if it’s because I have nothing “important” to contribute or if I’m just lazy.
Both of your posts make me so happy! I’m glad that you’re both having amazing summer adventures and are anxious for the upcoming fall. I expect very in depth posts when you finally arrive at your destinations (including photos).
So this past week I’ve been off sick because of my stupid ankle. I was going stir crazy the past 3 days laying in bed. You know how when you have a flu you’re semi happy to be spending time in bed because you’re actually ill? With my ankle it was the most frustrating thing because the rest of my body was fine.
The events of this past weekend really got me to thinking about friendship (you both know what I’m talking about). The way “two” of our friends act really bothers me and makes me question why I’m in the friendship to begin with. Why do I put myself in situations that eventually lead to my unhappiness? I think we always want to think the best of people, especially those we call close friends.
Do the people we choose as friends reflect something back on us? If we are friends with individuals who are selfish, or offensive, or rude are we being true to ourselves? It makes me think that I don’t respect or care enough about myself to find new friends who align with my way of thinking or interacting.
At the same time, are people being shitty because they know they are being shitty or are they just unaware they are being shitty? We all deserve to hear from our friends when they don’t like our behaviour because we all deserve the chance to correct it. On the flipside how many times do you have to tell a person about their hurtful behaviour before you can say fuck it and end the friendship?
Ending any sort of friendship is hard but, why waste the little time we have being unhappy or feeling shitty? The world is horrible enough as it is for us to consciously hang out with people people who consistently disappoint us.
Farewells:
Saying goodbye to Anna almost felt unreal. A year is such a long time that I actually can’t comprehend not being in your prescience for that long. It’s scary to think that soon not hanging out with the both of you will be routine (insert sobs here). What did it feel like when we all lived so close? I can barely remember. When we are all reunited in the fall of 2015 will we even be the same people? Will enough of our old selves be left to continue our friendships the way we left them?
These are just some interesting thoughts and I would love to hear what you both think.
Until the next time one of you requests a post…